KATULISTIWA at Brawijaya University

I won't tell much about this event, cause during the event I was mostly in a bad mood and someone kinda pissed me off. Just trying to hold myself and my emotion in steady state :D.

I will kindly share the photos during the event...

It doesn't look that I was on bad mood...kekekeke

but I did

Young & Locavore 2016

Young & Locavore

You must be unfamiliar with this words, right? so do I.

At first, niatnya cuman iseng-iseng apply essay tentang 'sumber daya pangan lokal di sekitar lingkunganmu' dengan harapan bisa jalan-jalan gratis ke pulau seribu. Hell yeah... kapan lagi bisa ke pulau seribu, gratisan lagi :D.
Berasa gambling sih sebenernya ikutan acara ini, nothing to loose lah ya. Kalau kepilih alhamdulillah, kalu enggak ya...yaudah lah anggep ini sebagai latihan buat nulis essay.

Alhamdulillah...ternyata dapet kesempatan buat jadi peserta di event tahunan ini.
FYI, kita nginep selama 2 hari satu malam di kepulauan seribu tepatnya di pulau pramuka dan akomodasinya full ditanggung sama Indonesia berseru & OXFAM.

Kegiatan ini seru banget lah pokoknya...

We have a lots of fun there, we play some games, enganged with the people, doing indepth interview, visited turtle conservation, playing in the sea shore, etc.
During the event, the participants was divided into 9 groups *if I'm not mistaken, kinda forgot*, and each group have the duties to discuss about local foods, its policy, youth role related to it, and etc. What I like the most about the discussion session is... there are 2 students of UI's FISIPOL in my team, and I love how the way they are thinking, and also I got a lots of informations and knowledges that I never get before, fyi I didn't that fond with political issues :D. It feels different when they talked based on their perspective and I love it because we discuss it base on many point of views. Those session reminds me of the time when I still joining IDC, when we have verbal or evalution about what've we debate about and feel like deja vu  *I've joined IDC for a short time, I quit because I can't catch up with them. It's kinda hard to adjust with their critical thinking :D*

Bagian yang paling menyenangkan tentunya adalah bagian makan-makan :D.
Kita disuguhin banyak makanan selama disana, dan tiap istirahat dari diskusi atau games pasti ada snack session. Kita juga dapat free tshirt & notebook lohhh, tahun depan wajib buat ikut lagi lah.

Oh ya... peserta  young & locavore ini lumayan beragam, ada yg dari IPB, UI, UNDIP, UIN, UGM, ATMAJAYA, UNPAD, dll. You will meet a lots of people from different background, and sure it will add your network area ;).

Here some pictures which taken by my friends...
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My Life

I guess, I should have introduce myself properly since long time ago.

So here we are...

My name is Widya Cahyani, my nickname is widya, but I used to be called anik/ani by my relative and my old friend, this is the fact that just few peoples knew about it, and I don't feel like tell the the others, and I kinda guilty not to tell them so.

I spent 9 years of study in my hometown, but then continuing high school in different city, so I have to move out from my house and spent my day in my rent house *not really move out, 'coz once or twice a week I will came to home*.

It was such a nice experience to have school in different city, but sometimes I got confused when it come to my friend, I had to memorize first whether this friend of mine knew my other friend since my previous school is in different city. I didn't have much close friend from junior high school that's why when holiday come, I would like to visit and gather with my friend in high school and it cost nearly two hours to get on the place that we already agreed before. But, everytime I see them, I felt happy coz I have friend like them, we have something in common that's why we just click to each other.

Thanks to Putri Rahma, Nurul, and Harmi, my roommate Aulia and mbak Anis who have fulfilled my 3 years of high school with so much experience and lesson learned. I'm glad that we still still keep in touch. I would like to say thank you especially to Putri, who have been a good listener everytime I tell about my long long time crush, I keep on telling her that I've already move on from him when the fact said the otherwise :D. Now, I've already get over him like for real...hahahaha I won't burden you anymore put.

Finnaly I can accepted that he is somebody's else and he didn't belong to me since long time ago :(.

If I were braver more than ever I would like to say thanks to him for fulfilling my brain during 8 years of my life with your figure and I thought that it was quite a long time to just think about one person *silly me :D*. 

"I just wondering, do you ever think of me even for once?" that's the question that have been bothering me till now.

Enough blabbering wid, time to say goodbye :)
Not quite interesting but finally I write it

Media Vs. Child

Just wanna take some time to ease my mind.

Wanna share somethings that have been holding on my mind since I dunno when.

Since my major is related to family and child development, I would like to give a glimspe of my mind about child and the effects of media toward child development.

I believe that something must have some good and bad effect in it, so does the media.

Lately, in our country there's such a cruel tragedy about sexual harassment or I can say that as  'rape and murder case toward underage child'. The media blow up the news intensively day by day and it become a national news. It is not that I disagree or showing no condolescene toward the victim, actually I as a girl felt how awful it is, how dare they did such a cruel thing toward a 14 years old girl.

What I'm scared of this tragedy is the exposure of the news towards child, cause some media described the scene of the tragedy in vigorous or vulgar ways, they didn't think who would hear/see/read the news, MOSTLY of them are just care about rating, and how to lead mass opinion. As we know that the news spread uncontrollably and we can't control the child whether they heard/see/read it on the tv, radio, newspaper, and etc. or not.  I'm afraid that children would get familiar with those kind of crime/action, and it will unconciously creeping through their unconcious mind, and they will do something similar if they are on position that support them to do so,  because they have an assumption that 'this is a common thing to do' 'this is something that ever did by someone so it's quite acceptable'. 

After that case, there are many of similar case that come out to the surface like an iceberg phenomenon. It was such a dilemma, the society have to know and form their awareness that there are a case like this and they have to be carefull and keep alert with their child safety, but in any other side this tragedy raise people fears, and raise the possibility that this case will happen again. The most and important thing to do is media should filter their information first before it gets release and they should be on netral position (many news agency in my country is owned by politician, I'm afraid that't they will used it to their own benefit) and government should do some repair or amandment about pers rules (I took Broadcast Media Course on the previous semester, and it made me review and discuss about the rules that shoul be move or amandment or even added some rules cause some of it are didn't fit with current development anymore).
Eventhough this is just based on my own asssumption, but it isn't only me who have a thougt like this.

YOT Bogor

So.. this past year, I've been joining a community which called 'Young On Top Bogor' or we known as YOTBogor.
Will post some of our activity in this blog, start from our latest event "Youth Voice", a seminar that talking about personal branding and how to be ambassador.

So here it is

My Favorite Singer

Karena gak bisa tidur, finally I decided to write a post on my blog. :)
In this post I'll give you information about my favorite singer, both male and female singer.
First...

1. K,will

I love his voice so much duh, he is often singing on Kdrama soundtrack. Take a glance at his face! In my opinion he is similar to daesung Bigbang's,
I believe that he is a King of Kdrama Soundtrack. Tiap kali ngisi soundtrack pasti lagunya booming and no doubt rata-rata drama yang diisi soundtrack sama doi ini ratingnya bagus, dan bukan gue doang yang mikir kayak gitu, so it proofs that I'm right :D *maksa*
Lagunya paling berkesan buat aku nih "I hate Myself", It is kind of ballad song. I didn't entirely understand the meaning of that song *korean isn't my first languange * everytime I listen to that song, my heart ache *hahahaha lebay wid* I felt like it reflects myself, I hate myself for doing the same mistakes. I can't mention all of his song, Cause a half of his songs are mostly my favorite, You can search it by your own.

2. Lyn

Nah... kalo K.will dapet julukan King Of Soundtrack, harusnya yang dapet gelar Queen of Soundtrack penyanyi yang satu ini. I dunno why di korea yang dapet gelar ini malah Baek Ji Young. No offense, suara dia juga bagus, tapi aku lebih rela kalo gelar Queen of Soundtrack ini jatuh ke tangan Lyn secara suara dia khas banget. Sama kayak K.Will, Lyn juga sering nyanyi lagu ballad like "You are My Destiny", pokonya banyak deh lagunya dia yang worth to listen, unfortunately I can't mention it one by one, I don't remember all of her song. Sama kayak K.will juga rata-rata drama yang diisi soundtrack sama dia ratingnya bagus-bagus kayak drama "You Who Came From Another Star", "Moon Embracing The Sun", "Oh My Venus", and the latest drama yang rating memecahkan rekor drama tertinggi selama 4 tahun yaitu drama "Descendant Of The Sun"

3. JJ Lin

Solois yang satu ini bukan penyanyi korea, but he is a singaporean singer. First time banget lah ngefans sama penyanyi lagu mandarin. Ngefans sama doi gara-gara nonton Tdrama "Waking Love Up" yang salah dua dari soundtracknya doi yang ngisi "Cries In a Distances" & "Bei Dui Bei Yong Bao". The songs are so touching that's why I search who's the singer and what the tittle is. Nyari laguya doi yang satu ini lumayan susah karena masih jarang yang upload or linknya udah expired, nyari lirik romanizationnya apalagi susahnya minta ampun. Sekalinya nyari di Baidu itu isinya huruf pinyin semua :(. The hardest part is when you sing the song, the pronounciation is a bit different with the letter, harus rela lidah kegigit tiap kali nyanyi lagunya doi :D. But I love his song very much, my favorite one is "Practice Of Love". Berharap suatu hari nanti bisa nonton konsernya secara live...Amin :)

4. Ben

Ben or known as Bebe Mignon, kenal solois yang satu ini juga lewat Kdrama Healer *Hidup gue penuh dengan drama ya ternyata :D* doi ngisi soundtrack disitu, judulny "You". Her voice is beautiful and she has a soothing voice like her face :D. Akhir-akhir ini dia juga sering ngisi soundtrack, di Kdrama lain.

5. Just

Pasti pas denger namanya ngerasa aneh, nyari profilenya di google juga susah gara-gara namanya begitu :'). Falling in love sama suaranya doi gara-gara dengerin lagunya "I Love You" soundtrack "You Who Came From Another Star". Rata-rata lagunya juga ala-ala ballad song, emang paling cocok lah buat ngebawain ballad song.

6. Huh Gak

The last is ahjussi yang punya suara dae to the bak, You have to hear one of his song, He isn't only sing ballad or blue song song, he also sing cheerful song. One of my favorite is "One Person", this song is KDrama Big's Soundtrack. Ahjussi yang satu ini juga punya kembaran namanya Huh Gong, dan suaranya juga gak kalah bagus, cuman Huh Gak debutnya lebih duluan daripada Huh Gong.
Salah satu lagunya yang paling hits yaitu "Hello", lagu ini hitz banget pas jaman gue SMA.

A Glimpse of My Mind

Unpredictable... yeah it always unpredictable when it comes to my mood.
I have been planing that today I would like to review all the materials of this one of my subject in this semester which is I never read or even write when the class was going on.

but...
Someone just ruined it in barely 5 minutes, how sad it is.
I know that she didn't intend to hurt me with her words, I know that I was in a blame too.
She was like to say that I was indeed an ungrateful person.

I hate it the most when I was indebt with someone, so untill these day I've been trying to do my own things unless it needs someone else's help.

"If you are helping someone and expecting someone in return, you are doing business not kindness"   -Anonymous-